Curated guest list
A thoughtfully chosen guest list, creating an atmosphere where people can feel at ease and enjoy getting to know one another.
Milan
Meet in real life
First Name Social Club
The pleasure of meeting. The possibility of more.
Evenings for singles in Milan, with easy conversation and room for a spark.
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01 / Milan
The next night
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- Venue
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- Applications
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A curated guest list. Capacity and availability to be confirmed.
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What is First Name Social Club
First Name Social Club is a format of in-person evenings built in the form of a social club, for single people primarily aged around 25–40. A thoughtful, welcoming setting in Milan to get to know someone, discover a connection and leave room for something more.
Why it’s different
Application-based access
Every application is read personally, with care for the spirit of the evening and the experience of each guest.
A considered guest list
A limited number of guests and care for the mix of people, giving each encounter room to unfold.
A refined environment
The atmosphere, welcome and choice of venue all contribute to the pleasure of spending time together.
Natural interaction
Your host welcomes you and helps the first conversations begin. You are free to follow your curiosity.
Time to connect
Conversations at your own pace, with the freedom to linger when a connection begins.
How it works
Apply
Complete the dedicated form for the next night when applications are open.
Review
The organiser carefully reads each application to bring guests together and encourage an enjoyable experience for everyone.
Invitation
If your application is accepted, you will receive a personal invitation by email with the evening’s details.
Confirm your place
Only invited applicants receive a private payment link, followed by confirmation once completed.
Meet in real life
Settle in, start a conversation and discover who you would like to know a little better.
The experience
Small details to make the first meeting feel more natural. Activities will be confirmed for each evening, and you are always free to choose whether to take part.
Participant wristband
A discreet way to recognise fellow guests.
Conversation cards
Optional prompts for anyone who wants to start a conversation.
A welcoming host
A point of contact to welcome guests and help the night unfold.
Subtle social activities
Light opportunities to connect, always optional.
Words first
Among the ideas being considered is a blind conversation: a different way to spark curiosity, always optional.
After the night
Sometimes a conversation deserves a second meeting. We are preparing a private way to indicate whom you would like to see again: contact details will be shared only with mutual interest and permission from both people. This service is not active yet; the process and a dedicated privacy notice will be available before use.
First Name Social Club
Your application
The first step is to introduce yourself. Applications will be carefully considered to create a thoughtful guest list and encourage an enjoyable experience for everyone. Applying does not guarantee admission.
Opening to be announced
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The form is not active yet. This website is not currently collecting applications.
The form opens on the dedicated external service. Every application is reviewed manually.
Frequently asked questions
Is this a chance to meet someone?
Yes. These evenings are for single people who would like to meet in person and explore a possible romantic connection. Conversations are free to unfold, without timed dates or mandatory rotations, leaving room for chemistry without pressure.
Can I come alone?
Yes — in fact, we encourage it. Coming on your own is a lovely way to open yourself to new possibilities and be surprised by the people you meet. Your host will welcome you and help with the first introductions.
What happens after I apply?
Every application is read personally. If accepted, you will receive an invitation at the email address given in the form, with details and instructions to confirm your place. No account is required; response arrangements and timing will be explained when applications open.
Is admission automatic?
Attendance is by invitation. We consider applications carefully, taking available places and the mix of guests into account. Introducing yourself through the form is the first step; your place is reserved only once confirmation is complete.
What does the participation fee include?
The price and inclusions are to be confirmed. Details will be provided with the invitation before payment.
Planned price: To be announced
What happens if I am waitlisted?
The waiting list may offer an opportunity to attend if a place becomes available. The process and timing will be explained before applications open; joining the list does not guarantee an invitation.
Dress code
Relaxed elegance, in something that feels like you. Any specific guidance for the chosen venue will be included in the invitation.
Cancellation policy
Cancellation and refund terms will be available before applications open and can be read before confirming and paying for your place.